Should I have children?

Remember that when you have children you don't do it alone! The key is to partner with a good father type that will share the load with you. You probably won't get a lot of me time on a daily basis but you should get some. My husband spends at least an hour a day and sometimes 2 or 3 with the kids while I shower, sleep in or do whatever I need to. I do the same for him. Occasionally we give one another several hours to go out and do stuff without the kids. I do most of the child care and I love it but everyone needs a little personal time. So the question isn't should I have children but should I have children with this guy. When you find the right guy, I'm sure you'll be ready.