Friend prob......urgent plz plz plz plz?

if ur not in love with him, stop acting like it. Give space. Even obsessing to point of asking strangers on the internet is a little "psycho ex-grilfriendish"........

Are you entitled to Vacation benefits after returning to previous employer from Basic Training and AIT?

I worked for a company in MD from 2007 until October 2010 at which time I decided to join the Army Reserves. I just returned from Basic Training and AIT This May and want to know if I am legally entitled to any Sick or Vacation days as if I had been working there from the start of 2011 onward. At my job if I had worked there without interruption because of Army training I would be entitled to 10 vacation days and 5 sick. I don't know if this still applies or if it is up to the discretion of my employer.

Would you call me a hypocrite/unethical/confused if I said or did the following? Then guess who I am.?

Like support gay rights (whatever that means) but not gay marriage. Start several new wars while pulling out of an old war. Wanting the rich to pay more in taxes, while using every tax break available. Or wanting to give billions to Brazil to drill for oil in deep water, while shuting down the very same industry here in the states. Stating the stimulus was for shovel ready jobs, then admitting there were no shovel ready jobs. Stating gay marriage is a state issue, after forcing universal health care on the states. PUTTING A TAX CHEAT IN CHARGE OF THE TREASURY. Telling a supporter who stated he could not afford $4.00 gas to buy a $42,000 dollar car. Slamming corporate jets, while flying on one all the time (For example going to get a nobel peace prize). Accepting the nobel peace prize after admitting you have done nothing to deserve it.

In search of a study center which provides space to do self studies?

Hi, i m currently working and doing my higher studies in actuarial science. I m sharing room with 4 and its always noisy and distracting... its not that i don like my company its just that i don get enough space or silent time to sit and study... i tried going to d close-by park find a corner to sit and concentrate... but its not helping n being a girl i find it risky too.. also tried to study after everyone goes to sleep... but its not fair from my part to switch on the lights and disturb while others are sleeping... I ve been searching for a library or a study center... a safe place where i can sit and do self studies for min 4 hrs without any interruption... Please give me suggestions on what should i do... where in Dubai i can find such a place??? Help me pleeeeeeeeease....

How to deal with my horrible mother?

So my mother complains all the time that she does not have anyone to take care of her and pamper atleast one whole day (since my parents are divorced she gets very lonely). So I decided to cook for her and give her a break from the kitchen for today and start cooking. To be honest I hate the kitchen and I hate to cook but I somehow bring myself to do it. So I start...and since I dont cook too often I happen to take longer than what she would take to cook the same thing..Obviously. So just when I'm about done, she yells from the bedroom (where is is just lazing around) if I'm planning on providing her with breakfast or dinner because I'm taking so long! I'm like I'm done, here it is. She is so unhappy and starts eating and complaining about how long I took to make it and how I am so slow and how I still have to learn to do things right and how I'm incapable of providing her a happy breakfast etc...etc. At this point my blood is boiling....On top of making her breakfast and trying to do something nice, this ***** wants to complain on how I could not do it according to her standards! I just want to scream and say SCREW YOU *****, YOU DESERVE NOTHING! But instead I control my temper and tell her to stop nagging for which she explodes like a latent volcano and starts yelling at me and throwing stuff and acting like a psychotic poodle! I try to reason with her and tell her to calm down and she slaps me!!!!!!! At this point I lose my temper and start yelling too (I really wanted to slap her back but obviously I can't slap my mom). She tells me I'm a ***** and needs to be treated like one and she will make sure she will put me in my place blah blah...She says this was the reason my dad does not like me. WOW. I mean really?? My dad (another son of a gun) din't care about her and left her and because i was closer to her left me too) but to bring this on me like this and that too for what..trying to make her bloody breakfast??!! I had to remind her that he left her too and not just me. Now she is not talking to me and still is fuming and calling me names. So who is right...me or her? What should I do? I do not want to live with this devil of a woman anymore. Any ideas?

If Darkness is just "the absence of light", how can Light come out of Darkness in the Bible?

You answer it yourself. There is no light, hence there is darkness. God says "Let there be light," so there's light. When the light is interrupted, or your spot on the Earth turns from the sun, or you put your hand in front of your flashlight, it gets dark again.

How can the President seriously claim that he is for the middle class and scold Congress for taking a recess?

First I am middle class. I make $70k a year and every policy that he puts forward hurts the middle class and poor. 1)Taking away oil companies ability to take depletion & accelerated depreciation of its assets (that is the subsidies they refer too) is going to reduce oil exploration and increase the oil company expenses. This will of course cause an increase in heating oil and gas prices. Of course since gas prices will be higher that will cause increase in trucking and shipping and another increase in airfares. So now my necessities (food, heat and gas) are more expensive and if I am able to scrape together enough money for a vacation (which is unlikley) it will be more expensive too. What your moretoreum on oil drilling did not contribute to the rise in oil enough? To top it off the new EPA regualations which is essentially the Cap and Tax law that failed in Congress not only kills jobs in the clean coal industries but will raise my electricity bill as well. Now who does these increases hurt more the middle class or the Fat Cat in his corporate jet? Second in the last few months the President has played 17 rounds of golf (min 2.5 hrs) and held 33 fundraisers (lets say all time included 3hrs each) and then scolds Washington saying he has been there bc he met with each caucus for 1.5 hrs. So that is 142hrs to 6hrs. I guess the heart of this question is how can any regular working Joe like myself defend this policy. Best answer to anyone that can show me the error in my logic.